I received a phone call today from my social worker. If you weren't aware, I am looking at trying to get my niece out of foster care. She is located in another state which makes life terribly difficult. I went through the same process with Bash and now I find myself there again. I was told that my application was denied. DENIED?!?!?!?!?!? I can not believe it. The reasons were ridiculous. So, now what? What if my niece gets put up for adoption? Will she not be able to stay with her family? I am so angry! She is my own flesh and blood! The foster system is not about what is best for the child. Bash is doing so good here with me. He has done a complete turn around. It has been a long hard road but it has also been a good one.
I will reapply and I will win - even if I have to hire an attorney!
I will have to say that V's foster mom and I have had a few really great conversations. I have no doubt that baby V is being loved and spoiled. It is good to know she is safe and with a wonderful family.
On another note, I spoke with Cheryl this morning regarding Claire. They are still trying to get a foster home lined up for her. I have been worried for that little girl. I have filled out the adoption application and am ready to go forward with getting her here safe and sound. I am still looking to raise money for her living expenses as soon as they secure a foster home for her. I will be setting up a Cafe Press Shop where the proceeds will go to help Baby Claire.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Upset and Confused
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Friday, October 31, 2008
Happy Halloween - All Hallows Eve-Samhain
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Monday, October 20, 2008
Can We Help Little Claire?
About a month ago I received an email regarding a little girl named Claire. Claire is approximately three years old and she is HIV+. Claire lives in Uganda and works 12 hours per day breaking rocks in a quarry for approximately five cents per day. The email stated that approximately 60-100 children were found in this quarry - homeless and starving. The sender of the letter had asked if I would be interested in adopting this three year old. They were having difficulty getting her placed because of her HIV status. They had also sent me a picture of sweet little Claire. I knew as soon as I opened the picture that I was suppose to help this child at the very least. My ultimate goal would be to adopt her into my family. Those of you who have been following my blog know that I have looked into adopting internationally for quite sometime. In fact, I was in the process of adopting from Ethiopia when I learned that my niece had been placed into foster care for the 2nd time. This puts everything on the international front on hold. My niece comes first. So, once again, I am prepping the house to re-license it as a foster home. I am very much looking forward to bringing baby V. to Vegas! But what about Claire? Well, I would like to bring her to Vegas as well. At the very least I want to help sponsor her. She needs to get started on ARV medication. Her immuno-compromised little body needs good nutrition, safe water, and a cozy bed to cuddle into at night. She needs to be able to run and play like a 3 yr old instead of slave away in the rock quarry. Please check out the paypal donation button to the right. Please find it in your heart to give anything. Every little bit helps! I have also left my email and would love to hear from each and everyone of you that would like to know more about Claire.
I know many of you think that the picture above is of Claire working in the quarry. I can not in good faith post pictures of Claire without permission. The picture above is of Stephen Batte. A Ugandan boy who was one of the 60-100 children living and working in the quarry. He has earned a little notoriety after he became the subject of an article regarding the children of Uganda working in the quarry. I have re posted the article here:
Ugandan children work on dangerous rock pile
Many risk their lives for a pittance in the quarry outside Kampala
updated 1:16 p.m. PT, Sun., June. 1, 2008
KAMPALA, Uganda - Stephen Batte works in a quarry under the blazing sun, chipping rocks into gravel with a homemade hammer. It's tiring, boring and dangerous.
Stephen is 9 years old. He's been on the rock pile since he was 4.
"Life has always been hard here," he whispers, carefully positioning a sharp rock before striking it with well-practiced accuracy. "But since my mother died, things have been much harder." His mother, the woman who taught him to smash rocks when he was a toddler, was killed here in a landslide in August.
His T-shirt torn and his feet bare, Stephen is one of hundreds of people who work in the quarry on the outskirts of Uganda's capital, Kampala. Their shabby figures sit hunched over their heaps of gravel. The chink of metal against stone bounces off the rock faces.
12-hour days to earn a pittance. Most of the workers are refugees who fled a civil war in northern Uganda. Now they make 100 Uganda shillings, 6 U.S. cents, for every 5-gallon bucket that they fill with chipped rocks. Stephen works 12 hours a day to fill three buckets.
There's no safety code or protective clothing. The children's arms and legs are covered in scabs from flying stones. Stephen says a friend lost an eye.
Rock falls are frequent. Stephen remembers the one that killed his mother.
"She had left the house early to work," he says through a translator. His voice falters. "We did not know that she was underneath the rocks — not until we saw her sandals.
He remembers her when she was showing him, as a toddler, how to crush stones.
"I sat next to her and she showed me how to hold the hammer. It's not easy and at first I would hit my fingers so I cried a lot. It made my mum very sad but she said we had to earn money to buy food."
Now he works alone at the quarry and spends his meager earnings on food. He sleeps in the crumbling mud hut he used to share with his parents and baby sister. He says his stepfather abandoned them after their mother's death. The sister, 8 months old, was put in an orphanage.
"If I stay in the house I feel lonely and I fear the memories," he explains. "So even though I'm tired when I leave the quarry, I go and play football with my friends."
No help for urban refugees. At the height of the 22-year conflict between the government and a brutal, shadowy rebel group called the Lord's Resistance Army, almost two million people fled. Most ended up in squalid government-controlled camps, but advocacy groups estimate that there are up to 600,000 in the cities.
A truce has enabled many of the camp-dwellers to go home, with food, tools and building materials provided by the government and aid groups. But the urban refugees don't qualify for help and have remained unregistered and invisible.
When Musa Ecweru, the minister of relief and disaster preparedness, visited the quarry, relief workers had to meet his car two miles from the site because his driver couldn't find it.
The normally talkative Ecweru seemed at a loss for words at what he saw, and unable to make firm commitments to help. He admitted that the government "may not have appreciated fully the magnitude" of the problem, and promised to bring it to the government's attention.
Then he gave a group of women and children with whom he spoke $30 and told them to divide it among themselves.
Two months after the minister's visit, Stephen's situation is unchanged.
"I wish I could be helped," he said, picking at a large scab on his knee, "but I cannot see another life for me."
Stephen now has a completely different life after being featured on the Internet. My hopes are that the same can be done for little Claire. I have posted below the follow up story regarding Stephen Batte.
WENATCHEE — When Jennifer Kesterson read about 9-year-old Stephen Batte chipping rocks into gravel beneath the blazing African sun for 18 cents a day, she was determined to help the boy.
"How can someone from a little town in Washington help a child in Uganda?" Kesterson, 63, of Wenatchee, asked herself. "But I thought, I have to try."Kesterson, a retired Cashmere Valley Bank employee, read the Associated Press article about Stephen that appeared in the June 1 edition of The Wenatchee World. Stephen had worked in a quarry chipping rocks since he was 4. His mother had been killed in a landslide in the same quarry, near Kampala, Uganda. Stephen told the reporter he worked about 12 hours a day to make 18 cents. "I just prayed to God, 'What can I do to help this child?' " Kesterson said. She said she had recently read a pamphlet about starving orphans in Africa that was distributed at her church. She started looking on the Internet for groups that have missionaries in Uganda and learned about Legacy World Missions, a nonprofit organization in Georgia that helps children in Uganda. That group had a link to Jesus and Me Children's Ministries in Kampala.
Kesterson said she quickly e-mailed Legacy World Missions and David Knowlton, founder and director of the Kampala organization. Angela Warner, executive director of Legacy World Missions, wrote that they had received a lot of interest in finding help for Stephen since the article had gone out on the wire service, but chances of finding him in a country where thousands of children suffer each day were slim.
Warner praised Knowlton and his work with children in the country and encouraged Kesterson to continue writing him for assistance. Knowlton wrote to Kesterson and said he would try to look for the boy himself. Knowlton is a native Ugandan, educated as an electrical engineer. He started Jesus and Me Children's Ministries in 1998 to help Uganda's orphaned and displaced children. The ministry was set up as an official nonprofit nongovernmental organization in 2003, according to its Web site.
Kesterson sent Knowlton a copy of the article and photo of Stephen that appeared in the paper. With the help of the Rev. Gary Warner, Angela Warner's father and founder of Legacy World Missions, Knowlton was able to find Stephen within three days. Knowlton got permission from Stephen's aunt and his tribe to become the boy's legal guardian.
Stephen is now living in Knowlton's home, where he has his own bed, school clothes and enjoys regular meals. He is being treated for malaria, which many children in Uganda have. And he's attending school for the first time. Knowlton has written about the rescue triggered by Kesterson's concern and financial help and posted it on his Web site. Legacy World Missions has also used the good deed as an example of what can be done.
Kesterson said she sent Knowlton $500 to help with Stephen's care and has offered to send $100 a month. She said her husband, Larry, a retired Chelan County PUD line foreman, are equally excited about the help they are able to offer.
Angela Warner said Monday that Stephen's rescue never would have happened without Kesterson's persistent drive to help. She said she has met Knowlton, knows his program well and would trust him with her own children. She said there are thousands of children like Stephen who need help, but help starts with helping one. "Someday, Stephen will hear the story of the woman who cared for him so much that she powered this through and wouldn't give up," Warner said. "You could see it in her e-mails that she was desperate to help. It was quite powerful."
steigmeyer@wenworld.com
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Sunday, October 19, 2008
MOM?!?!?! Who Me?
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Friday, October 3, 2008
Happy Birthday Baby V
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Friday, June 20, 2008
He Loves Me? He Loves Me Not? - HE LOVES ME!!
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Monday, June 9, 2008
She Did It!!!!!!!!!
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Friday, May 16, 2008
XMAS 2007
I thought I would post a few pics from Christmas:
Sky, Bash, Me, and Dante - Aren't they just the best looking kids?!?!?!?
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care.
The kids have hit the motherload!!
Waiting in line for Xmas dinner at the buffet - so totally Vegas!
Me and my baby boy - we have shared 20 Christmas's together!
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Hello Again
I have officially been yelled at for not posting often. So, here I am posting. I am going to try and be better. I actually like posting but I get hung up on adding pictures. I have been so bad at downloading pics from my camera - I just spent 2 hours downloading and trying to organize pics and I am still only half way done.
I am going to start posting pics here and there on my blog. They will start back from Christmas 2007. I think that is where I left off.
Other things going on:
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Friday, May 9, 2008
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Yes I Am Alive
I know it has been months and months since I last posted. Things have been busy and one day seems to roll into the next. Pretty soon, I have so much to say that blogging almost seems overwhelming. So, let me just take it slow:
The Xmas holidays were a lot of fun. Bash got entirely too many things! I always seem to go just a tad over board. It was a good old fashion family get together. Gianni and her son, Jack spent the holidays with us. Dante and Sky actually seemed to get along this year - thank god!
Found out I had a slab leak on New Years Eve - happy new years to me!!!! Thank god my dad came down to help me fix it. Saved me thousands!!!
Spent New Year's Eve with Kara - my very bestest friend! It was fun - drinking wine, watching the ball drop in Time Square, and chatting the night away. I just love her - and am so lucky to have her in my life.
My 41st birthday came and went. I had a great time!!
All of Bash's paperwork for the adoption is completed - we are just awaiting finalization!!! Hope it happens soon.
We got a puppy - I know - I am crazy. But I just can not help it! He is so cute. His name is Zeppelin and he is about 13 weeks old. He is a black great Dane. I just love big dogs!!! He has fit himself in well.
Irie, my little pom had a run in with Willow my female Dane over a piece of pizza. Irie lost. She had surgery to fix the damage to the tune of 1500.00. She is the only dog out of the 4 that I can not get pet insurance on. Irie is doing well and we are very villigent around here to ensure that no pizza falls on the floor in the presence of the dogs.
Valentines day was fun! It was spent with Sky, Bash, Gianni, and Jack. We went to dinner and to a show. The show was a variety show and it was good - the kids enjoyed it.
Skylar is officially an adult! I can not believe that my baby is 18. Her dad and I bought her some driving lessons (actual behind the wheel lessons). She still has to ger her license - I wish she would practice a little more though. I did, however, miss her birthday. The 1st time in my life I have not celebrated my kids birthday with them. It was heartbreaking. I was in Kentucky for school. I sent her 18 long stem pink roses (they were beautiful) and Gianni took her and Bash to Sky's favorite restaurant, Roys, for me. We did get to celebrate on Monday. I got VIP tickets to Tony and Tina's Wedding. We dressed up like Mafia and rented a limo. The show was a blast. We danced and interacted with the cast - in fact a few of the other people in the audience thought we were part of the cast. It was great! Just like attending a big Italian wedding reception. The kids almost got kicked out for tasting some of the champagne at the table.
I met Dante's new love interest. She seems very sweet and he seems to like her a lot.
I went to Hyden, Kentucky for 5 days! You may be asking "Why Kentucky?" Well, that is where my school is located. It was a great experience - much different then I thought it would be. The history is amazing, the instructors were great, and I met some really great people - all with the same mindset as myself. It was very cool! So April 7th I officially start. It will take me 1 year to get through the Bridge portion (ADN-MSN bridge portion). I then have to go back to Hyden for 4 days for "Crossing The Bridge." Once I have crossed the bridge I will start the didactic portion of the midwifery program. I did find out that just one more clinical class will also get me my Women's Health Nurse Practitioner's license. So I will be doing that as well. I guess my name will have the following letters behind it: C.N.M.W.H.N.P. Much different then the R.N. I have now.
We are in the process of having a pool/spa installed in the backyard. Wow, is it a lot of money and it is very stressful and they haven't even dug the big hole in my backyard. I will be psyched to have it finished though!!!
Last week I got and email from Lighthouse Adoptions, that my application to adopt from Haiti has been approved!!!! I am so excited!!!
I know everyone is dying for pictures. I will get them loaded on here in the next week - so keep checking back.
It feels good to be back!!
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